I’ve been there. And it doesn’t just have to do with our cycles. Anxiety and low self-esteem can also be triggered by a poor diet which makes us feel extremely insecure *queue in the self-sabotaging thoughts*, and BAM, we no longer want to go on the date because we feel icky as fck. Might be silly to some men reading this but this is a real thing and it effects more women than you know.
Is she interested even though she canceled?
I’m going to let you in on a huge secret… This is a sure way of knowing if she genuinely likes you or not. If she cancels last minute and doesn’t try to reschedule for a different day, she’s not interested in you. Part of me wants to give her the benefit of the doubt and say maybe she’ll reach out in a few days and reschedule, but the point here is that if she doesn’t make that effort, she is not interested in exploring things with you. Thank you, next.
If someone isn’t going to make an effort to get to know you, you can’t take it personally… we never know what someone is actually going through/dealing with. If you find yourself even more attracted to this person as they begin to pull away, there is a deeper personal attachment/abandonment issue at hand that you need to take a closer look at.
You should be so sure of yourself, your value and energy you bring into a relationship that if someone is going to reject it, you almost feel sorry for them for being unable to see what you see in yourself. You should never waste your time proving your worth to anyone. High self-worth is radiant, magnetic and secure.
Why Do Women Flake On Dates? — SELF CARE EVERY DAMN DAY is written by Stephanie Daily for www.selfcareeverydamnday.com