Tips for giving men oral sex:
Thank you to the woman who asked this question and God bless the men who gave us their advice & insight.
Listen close because 132 men submitted their preferences. Keep in mind that because over 100 men gave their input, there were a lot of common responses, but there were also contrasting submissions which further proves that not every partner is going to enjoy the same techniques.
This is why it’s important to have open dialogue about preferences and what feels good for all parties involved. It’s proven that communication between partners increases sexual satisfaction
I’ll be sharing the insight that was most commonly mentioned and a few responses that stood out.
Use your hands
This was the most common response. A good amount of these men said to use both hands. Another man said to consider your hand(s) as an extension of your mouth – well said. *Mental note* – *More hand action*
Wetter is better
One guy said oral sex for men isn’t that much different from women receiving it: “wet, warm, messy”. A lot of other guys mentioned “the sloppier the better”.
“Huge turn on”. I agree. Brave ladies, proceed.
Enthusiasm/ effort/ excitement
Imagine a partner going down on you and not knowing if they’re enjoying it or not, or maybe their lack of effort and enthusiasm completely kills the mood… Yikes.
Softly wrap your lips around your teeth if you’re concerned about this situation.
Twist/ circle your tongue on their tip
Don’t forget about the ⚽️🏀⚾️🥎
Check out this article to see the exact percentage of men who enjoy a solid ball game (lol).
Contrasting preferences among the submissions from 132 men:
“Consistency” — “Switch it up”
“Focus on the tip” — “Don’t forget about the base”
“Soft sucking” — “Aggressive suction”
“Gentle ball play — “Tugging”
You get the point — every partner is going to have different preferences. The best thing you can do is ASK WHAT FEELS BEST. Talking about preferences and desires with your partner is fun, rewarding and empowering!
what-do-men-like-in-bed — SELF CARE EVERY DAMN DAY is written by Stephanie Daily for www.selfcareeverydamnday.com