The idea of sexual well-being, desire and pleasure remaining hidden behind an army of social norms, stigma, religious views, and inherited beliefs is… fcking terrifying. I completely understand how it can make us ladies feel when we have been taught to suppress our sexuality: “ladies don’t do that”, “a lady would never say that”, “she’s not a lady”. Those dated responses are boring— give me anything BUT boring.
After doing all this research, I confirmed four things…
1. Talking about sex is fun (jk, already knew that 😉).
2. The masses are uneducated on the opposite gender’s desires/points of pleasure.
3. The majority of men and women are too afraid or do not know how to communicate their own desires/pleasure and ask their partner about theirs.
4. Men and women aren’t that different after all – speaking from a sexual standpoint, the majority of men and women very much desire the same things.
This article won’t be teaching you how to communicate your desires/pleasure points— that’s an entirely different discussion. This article is FILLED with REAL stats from our curious Instagram community about a man’s sexual desires and pleasure points.
Sex Ed for Women, from Men — SELF CARE EVERY DAMN DAY is written by Stephanie Daily for www.selfcareeverydamnday.com